

Does it still take a whole village to raise child?
In modern countries the old "system" of learning from your parents, your younger and older siblings, relatives, friends, the elders and the rest village are almost gone.
Most kids grow up with single parents without any siblings. The modern family network usually is very small and doesn’t offer a "full set" of relatives. Even the grandparents show less and less interest in their genetic offspring’s anymore.
Sure we have schools and universities to learn at. But they teach us not much about life – they mostly transfer only knowledge and facts. Sure, there is social interactions, but not the Wisdom of the Tribe.
But was is the Wisdom of the Tribe. Today we would call the "Tribe" your "social network" – but it should really include your extended family (genetically and spiritually). It’s wisdom is how to handle life, how to deal with problems, an understanding about each persons "essence" in the tribe, growing up, listening to old stories, adapting family histories and finally taking responsibility for your own life. The tribe also teaches you how to deal with death – diving into spirituality and creating your own mythology for your own mental survival.

A great way to learn about real life?
Most of these things are left to shrinks or anti-depressants. Television provides most of the myths in form of fairy tales and heroes we model our life’s after. In a sad way more kids have been impressed by James T. Kirk than by their own fathers or anyone in their families.
Many generations living together as a tribe give each other a chance to learn from each others current state of mind and problems of their current phase in life. It’s learning by watching and relating – young with old.
Today we hardly have such intimate insights into human life – it’s either from a distance or from TV.